When I told him what monogamy would take?
He was certain he could do it.
Just like many of you guys do too?
He believed he could commit and make good on it.
The problem though as always, is it still takes two to tango son. If that girl of yours can’t make good as well, then you’re still going to be screwed arent you?
Actually you’ll likely NOT be screwed.
You’ll end up in a sexless marriage.
Because once your girl doesn’t feel okay?
You’ll reach the point of no return with her.
And just in case you didn’t hear what I said, I’ll repeat it once again for you. Once she doesn’t FEEL okay, sex will be a distant memory.
The problem is that unlike you?
When she says she can commit, she means she currently FEELS like it.
Once she feels differently though?
You know the drill don’t you?
This is a huge reason why I no longer recommend monogamy to anybody. You are simply too trusting that you can pull this off in the long run. BOTH of you!
The stats are all against you.
Why do you insist on denying them?
Of course I know exactly why you do.
Because you FEEL it won’t happen to YOU.
There is simply no logical reason to expect you will be the grand exception, and every logical reason to believe your story will end in those high percentages.
But as always, don’t shoot me!
I am just the messenger.
You have to make your bed and sleep in it.
Even if you end up sleeping in it alone!
Yet I still hold within myself a glimmer of hope, that maybe you’ll finally listen. Maybe you’ll finally develop a healthy skepticism in your ability to pull this off.
What I decided long ago?
I’ll just enjoy Romantic Friendships.
While all the lemmings continue making their way to the sea?
What do you say? Can you really commit to what it takes to pull off monogamy, and even if you think you can what makes you think that girl of yours can too?
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