So have you ever pondered it?
It is always your experience.
I hear it from you girls again and again.
“Why do I keep choosing the wrong guy?”
Well your friends at Pscyhology Today believe they’ve found your answer. They think there are 3 Reason Why, and they’re going to tell you about them.
I’m just not sure about it.
Though they are right?
I don’t think you’re going to like what they have to say.
According to a couple of studies, you’re too worried whether a guy is physically attractive. The problem with this type of guy is he tends to cheat on his partners.
As if that isn’t enough ?
A sexy voice is Number 2.
I guess that indicates testosterone.
Unfortunately this type of voice?
It is also associated with cheaters.
I know you’re holding out for reason Number 3, and hoping it will provide a solution. But if I really have to tell you going for a guy with girlfriends doesn’t make sense? There isn’t much I can do to help you.
But that’s what you do.
The pickup artists know all about this.
They call it preselection.
One indicator you use to judge a guy’s worth?
Are other hot girls into him?
So what should you go for in a guy, if all of your usual criteria are mistaken? How do you pick out a keeper from the crowd, who will stick with your for the long-term?
According to this article?
You shouldn’t look for LOVE.
A guy you can RESPECT is what you’re wanting.
Somebody who is honest as well.
Looks are not on offer.
I told you that you wouldn’t like it, but this once again shows you what I always tell you. Romantic love has nothing to do with long-term “committed” relationships at all.
If you want long-term LOVE?
You have to do things different.
Skip the whole “committed” thing.
Opt for Romantic Friendships instead.
What do you think? Will you continue to hope for that hot guy or settle for Mr. Dependable, or will you make the shift to the relationship style where you can enjoy love without any of the baggage at all?
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