You guys just don’t know what you’re missing.

By being “out for sex?”

I mean it you’re missing out.

But of course?

I get it.

It’s exciting having a girl get sexually excited and wanting to get hot and heavy with you. To know that you’re really turning her on, is a great feeling that’s for sure.

That’s the problem with porn.

There’s nobody there.

Just a two dimensional representation.

You’re looking at a cardboard cut out.

Or watching somebody else get into sex that’s not even real.

But what if I could tell you that even the sex you’re having with the real live girls you’re picking up, is not the best you could be experiencing?

Not only is it not the best?

It’s actually the worst of all.

At least when you’re viewing porn you’re actually being honest.

You’re not pretending to really connect with someone.

When you have a real live girl in your bed?

The potential for so much more is astronomical.

By settling for “just sex,” you’re settling for high calorie low nutrition fast food, when you could be enjoying a five course gourmet meal with her.

What makes the difference?

Really loving a girl.

Really giving yourself to her.

When you do that?

The game completely changes.

Now she’s into you for who you are.

Not just what you “do to her.”

When a girl realizes you really love her for who she actually is? That you’re not with her just using her so you can get off? She will completely give herself to you body and soul, because she truly feels loved.

There is no way you can fake this guys.

And no way she can either.

When she knows she is loved?

She will be totally turned on.

In a way you have never experienced before.

She’ll be begging you to love her completely.

Like I said.

Body and soul.

I remember the first time I read a guy suggest that “getting off” wasn’t the point of sex. That “getting excited” was actually “getting in the way” of it.

I thought he was crazy.

Didn’t know what he was talking about.

Where was the fun in that?

When you’re not thinking with the right head?

It’s funny how wrong things look to you.

Why would you choose 30 seconds of pleasure?

When you could make love with her for hours?

One big explosion is nothing compared to the endless wonder of exploring your romantic connection, when you really love your partner.

All I can say guys?

You don’t know what you don’t know.

But I encourage you.

Find out about this!

It will change your perspective on sex forever.

What do you think girls? Am I saying it straight that you’ll give yourself totally to your guy when you know he truly loves you?