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What Should You Do If You Catch Your Partner Watching Porn?

Nothing.

What?

That’s right.

Nothing.

You should do absolutely nothing at all.

I know that everybody still seems to think that your partner watching porn is a problem. And you may even feel like your partner is being unfaithful to you when they do.

But nope.

That’s not it.

Your partner consuming porn is not a problem.

The only problem that’s happening?

It’s YOUR reaction to the fact they do.

You see whether or not your partner watches porn has nothing to do with whether he or she truly loves you. That’s right. These days even SHE could be the one you catch “doing it” now.

The reason people watch porn?

It is NEVER to be unfaithful.

If unfaithfulness is happening?

Believe me.

It’s much much WORSE than this.

If your partner is a guy as you should know by now he is inherently a sexual being. There is nothing more natural in his life than to desire sexual stimulation most of the time.

Unless you are a horny girl?

Thank GOD he has this outlet!

And if your girl is the horny one?

Thank God she has porn to regulate that too!

Even if your partner is addicted to porn unfaithfulness still isn’t the problem. He or she isn’t doing it at all because they don’t still love YOU.

The only question you should ever ask?

“Is my partner really connecting with ME?”

If they are?

There is absolutely no reason to be concerned.

And if your partner is not connecting then you should explore THAT and talk about it together. But talking about his or her porn use will only distract you from what’s really going on.

If porn is any kind of problem?

It is always only a symptom.

When you have a happy love life?

It’s presence or absence is completely irrelevant then.

What do you think? Have you been overreacting thinking your partner’s porn use is a problem and wouldn’t it be much better just to ask yourself whether they are connecting with you or not?

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