What if you were just relaxed about sex?

If you didn’t see it as the “big deal” it isn’t?

What if you could just share it with a friend?

Because you love them and they love you?

What kind of world would it actually be, if you honored sexual fulfillment the way you honor emotional connection? How much more rich would your life become, if you could finally get over this awkwardness?

Do I really need to tell you?

There is no opportunity for greater pleasure.

The joy you can experience in a sexual way?

There is nothing to compare with it.

Yes I know you’ve likely experienced sex as a source of emotional trauma. Lots of people are really messed up about it, and don’t know how to truly express LOVE this way.

But I guarantee you, this is all your loss.

Take it from a sexual avoider.

The better part of my life?

I spent it missing out on physical intimacy.

This was all because of mistaken stories I was told about my sexuality. That it was somehow dirty, or wrong and something I should not enjoy.

The problem was?

I was just like you!

I did experience sex as pleasurable.

Now after many years of shame?

I can finally just enjoy it.

Now my life is so carefree in this area, I have to remind myself, others like you are still uptight about it. I cannot tell you what a relief it is, to leave those uptight feelings behind.

This is now my vision for you.

To enjoy Romantic Friendships.

Emotional connection AND sexual fulfillment?

They’re meant to be shared with anyone.

Romantic Love is now my purpose, and I want to encourage you to make it your purpose too. Instead of wasting years waiting for “the one,” make love with that friend of yours you ALREADY love!

What if you were just relaxed about sex?

If you didn’t see it as the “big deal”l it isn’t?

What if you could just share it with a friend?

Because you love them and they love you?

How about you? Are there people in your life right now who you really love, and with whom you could share this wonderful treasure, and if so why spend another moment missing out on enjoying it together?