To Her It Is More Than Just A Booty Call

To Her It Is More Than Just A Booty Call

One thing you guys need to realize?

Sex is usually more than “just sex” to girls.

While you’re out there “getting some?”

You’re likely getting into her HEART.

In an article titled The Surprising Psychology Behind Booty Calls the author shares an interesting study. It looked at the different types of relationships and how they are different for her than for you.

The first distinction the study makes?

It’s between long-term and short-term mating stategies.

Long-term is about raising kids.

Short-term is about meeting your emotional/sexual “needs.”

The author breaks out short-term strategies into “friends with benefits” and “booty calls.” The first one has an emotional element but no long-term “commitment” and the second is about “just sex.”

I find that distinction a little odd.

Usually friends with benefits is equated with the latter.

What the author is calling friends with benefits?

I would call romantic friends.

Be that as it may the important question is how guys and girls FEEL about the situation. What this study shows is while you’re looking at it as “just sex” she sees it more as romantic friends.

Without getting into the details?

The study came to a clear conclusion.

Your booty call girl likely sees it “as somewhat similar to more committed relationships.”

She sees is it as a “sort of exploratory sexual affair” with potential for MORE.

You on the other hand “consider booty calls as a series of one-night stands with little thought toward the possibility of deeper commitment.”

Needless to say?

The likelihood of your girl getting hurt in this situation?

Of her feeling like she’s been used?

It is not a MINOR considation at all.

This is why I’m always pushing you to get past “just sex” and move to Romantic Friendships. You don’t have to do the long-term “commitment” thing but you should ideally only have sex for LOVE.

While Romantic Friendships don’t require “commitment?”

There is no reason at all they can’t be long-term.

As long as you both continue to connect.

You can create your own version of FOREVER right now.

What do you think guys? Could you finally keep it in your pants until you truly love the girl you’re having sex with or will you keep leaving a trail of broken hearts in your path?

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