I don’t spend a lot of time on this subject here.
But as you know I help guys overcome porn addiction.
I even wrote one or two books on this one.
The real cause of this problem?
An unhealthy relationship to your sexuality.
When you come to have a truly healthy relationship to your sexuality, whether or not you still “consume” porn becomes a complete non-issue.
View it or don’t?
It doesn’t really matter.
It no longer has it’s HOOKS in you.
For example?
Last night I happened across a very attractive porn star I’d never seen before.
So I enjoyed collecting some photos of her.
Why did I think I’d keep them around for a while?
Because I’m free to enjoy the beauty of the female form now!
Even though I collected these photos I didn’t seek to “get off” or mastrubate with them. And within 24 hours I even found myself deleting those photos because quite frankly I just didn’t care about them that much.
Of course if you have a traditonal background?
You still find this disturbing.
Your cultural programming says something is wrong.
A guy shouldn’t “objectify” girls like porn does.
I used to think that too.
Until I actually OVERCAME my porn addiction.
Once I did?
I could finally see basic sexual attraction is completely okay.
What is not okay is being in a state of compulsion to ANY of your desires. Whether it is the desire for food or relationships or sex what makes things a problem is when you lack self-control.
In the old days I wouldn’t have made it 10 minutes.
Let alone 24 hours!
I would have HAD to do something about this girl.
Been compelled to seek a sexual release!
Now?
I can take it or leave it.
I’d much rather spend my time making love with someone I actually love anyway.
That doesn’t mean that I never masturbate anymore or never use porn to do so. The difference now is I do that when I WANT to and not because I HAVE to.
That’s my goal for you too.
To have control of yourself completely.
I want you to know what FREEDOM really feels like.
Sound like a crazy possiblity?
Hit me up if you want to talk about it.
Second to making love these days?
Helping you find freedom in your love life is what I’m all about!
What do you say? Can you begin to visualize the very real possiblity of this kind of freedom from porn addiction?
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