“Getting laid fast is the purpose of the game.”

“If you’re taking 3 or 4 dates to have sex?”

“I don’t know what you’re doing.”

Minus expletives?

This is exactly what a guy in a Facebook group wrote recently.

I really do have empathy for you girls, because I know this is what you’re facing. Guys don’t look at you as people anymore, they just look at you as a way to “get off.”

“Make him wait and don’t give in.”

“Make him squirm ladies.”

“If a guy isn’t willing to put a ring on it?”

“It’s okay to be just friends.”

“But he shouldn’t get access to the goods.”

I really do have empathy for you guys, because I know this is what you’re facing. Girls don’t look at you as people anymore, they just look at you as a way to get security and kids.

Okay.

Now I’ve laid the groundwork?

Let’s really get into this.

Both of you see how wrong the other is.

But how about YOU yourself, and how you’re acting?

What do either of your particular goals here have to do with romantic LOVE anyway? When you think about what romantic love actually IS? Not much actually.

Usually its obvious.

“Just sex” isn’t about love clearly.

What seems to be less obvious though?

“Just friends” and commitment aren’t about love either.

You both are just chasing what Nature wants the two of you to be chasing. You are being led about by your DNA, and missing out on the real deal unfortunately.

I know I’m a stuck record here.

Go for Romantic Friendships.

Without BOTH sexual fulfillment and emotional connection?

Nothing will truly fulfill you.

What do you think? Will you ever learn that the two of you both hold the answer, or will you continue the battle of the sexes and insist that only your side should win it?