Everybody is looking for the magic bullet.
What is the one thing you can do to make your love life better?
Each guru offers his or her own theory.
Everybody you talk to has their own idea what it is.
In case you haven’t noticed by now though the world is chock full of relationship “expert” knowledge. Everybody contradicts each other all the time so there’s no guarantee if you buy their new book or course you’ll arrive!
I suspect by now you feel like I do.
You find yourself generally skeptical.
If there really was a magic bullet like they claim?
Surely your day in NIRVANA would have happened by now.
The danger of all this is if you’re not careful you can start getting cynical. You can find yourself swearing off relationships completely and think you’re better off just being alone.
I’m not going to tell you that isn’t an option.
This is also why I don’t do the “one size fits all” thing.
I work one on one with you because you’re a unique individual.
I adapt what I’m doing just for you.
Having said all this you’re probably thinking I’m going to tell you that there is NO magic bullet. I can understand why you’d think that way from what I just said but I’m actually here to tell you there IS.
“Oh sure, here he comes.”
“Kel’s got a course and he’s now gonna pitch it!”
I’m up to nothing so sinister.
I just have a simple concept I want to leave you with.
One of my real estate gurus in the past put it this way: Know VALUE. Once you know value then everything is valuable.
In real estate that meant learn the values of properties in an area.
Once you know those values you can distinguish the duds from the bargains.
In your love life it means knowing your partner’s worth.
Focus on THAT and you’ll find what you’re after.
The reason you’re spinning your wheels right now?
You focus on everything but the value of the actual PERSON you’re with.
So what do you think? Could you simplify your love life by just zeroing in on the bare essentials and valuing your partner for who he or she actually is while you forget about everything else?
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