Sometimes you girls can be so silly.
Case in point?
In an earlier post I shared an approach I did.
I struck up a conversation with a cute Korean girl I met at Starbucks.
As I told you then, I don’t usually get overwhelmed by a girl, but this girl did it. When I saw her, I totally admit her physical attractiveness did me in.
So I approached her.
Of all things, in the bathroom lineup!
We got talking and I told her, “You seem nice.”
Which she was.
She smiled and we agreed to meet up.
When she left the Starbucks, she also gave me a huge smile as she walked by me. From everything I could tell, it was all systems go!
A couple hours later?
I sent her a simple text message.
“It was really great to meet you!”
About a half hour later she writes, “Me too!!!”
I always love the way you girls are so generous with the exclamation marks. For me, it adds to your cuteness, and conveys how excited you actually are.
I told her I’d message in a couple days.
I would check back to pin down a time with her.
I finished with, “Have a fun weekend!”
Once again?
“You too!!!”
All of this happened on Friday, so on Monday I checked back with her. I usually like to check in personally a bit, before getting down to business.
“So how was your weekend?” I wrote.
No reply.
Radio silence all day Monday.
By Tuesday I’m thinking she’s probably a ghost.
Oh well!
But ever the guy to experiment. I decided to give her one last chance anyway. I messaged her that I could meet up Wednesday or Thursday around 7 pm, and asked if either of those worked for her.
“I work both days,” she said.
“And my boyfriend doesn’t like it.”
I’m thinking to myself, “Ya think?”
But I left it at that.
What do you think girls? If a guy approaches you out of the blue and asks you for your number, if you have a boyfriend, do you think it might make sense to mention that?
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