How I Kicked Porn Addiction And How You Can Kick It Too

How I Kicked Porn Addiction And How You Can Kick It Too

I didn’t know at the time I was sexually addicted.

I just knew I had a problem with pornography.

I couldn’t seem to stop myself.

I snuck away to view it over and over again.

When I entered into my long term relationship I was very clear about this with my partner. Though I didn’t seem to have self-control in this area I had no intention of reporting in to her about it all the time.

And so it became my secret life.

Something she and I never discussed together.

Something I did when no one was looking.

I never felt good about it.

But what was I supposed to do?

Half way through our relationship my partner was getting upset about my sexual disinterest. Aren’t couples supposed to have sex with each other? What on earth was going on?

So we went to a sex therapist.

She asked me a bunch of questions.

Cross examined me about my sexual interests.

Since I had no interest in my partner she asked, “Are you gay?”

No tendencies in that direction last time I checked!

Whatever the reason though from very early on I had been a total sexual avoider. Except for my indulence in pornography I had zero interest in experiencing sex at all.

The therapist concluded I was addicted.

Hooked on the endorphins I experienced while “using.”

She said if she was going to help me?

I’d have to commit to going cold turkey on porn.

Swear off it completely.

As long as I had porn?

What did I need my partner for?

Since I had tried many times, over many years, to break off from this endless indulgence? I knew the program she wanted to put me on would definitely be a total fail.

I walked away saying, “Thanks anway.”

And on and on I went with it.

Many years after that?

I finally kicked that crazy addiction.

How did I do that?

Not the way everybody tells you that you have to.

When I broke the back of my pornography addiction I did it by USING pornography instead of avoiding it. I learned to use my very triggers to build self-control into my life.

Maybe right now you can relate to this.

Not to the solution but to the problem.

You also struggle to break free of porn.

You just want to be in control of yourself am I right?

Many years ago now I did just that and I’m so grateful for the changes that happened. I don’t spend my time worried now that if I see something that triggers me I’m going to slip and fall.

The way I did this?

I used exposure therapy.

It’s kind of like building muscles.

How do you know you’ve kicked the porn habit?

When you can VIEW it but then take it or leave it.

That’s been my experience for many years now. Yes it IS a battle but it is a battle you can win with some help if you want to.

That’s what I wish for you too.

If you currently struggle with this addiction?

You CAN kick this thing and get your life back.

That’s what I help my clients do.

Whether you are a guy or a girl struggling with this?

I can help you find real personal freedom as well!

What are you waiting for?

Hit me up NOW and let’s get started!

What do you say? Is it worth it to make a move and try something totally different to finally change the direction of your life?

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