Wow!

I just read this article.

It is all about how to have a happy marriage.

When I finished it?

I could have cried.

It couldn’t be more wrong.

If you don’t believe me give it a read, and see if you notice the glaring omission. Also ask yourself, who would write something as useless as this?

Of course as you’ll notice?

It was written by a girl.

That should give you a hint regarding the problem.

Like almost every girl without exception?

She thinks what she’s listed is ALL you need.

If you are still not seeing the problem, I suggest you review my definition of romantic love. I’ll wait while you go ahead and do that now, and then we’ll talk.

Okay.

I suspect some of you won’t make the effort.

So let me spell it out for you.

Ready?

The missing ingredient is one word.

S. E. X.

I’m not kidding you. The author of this piece doesn’t even pay lip service to this necessity. In typical fashion as a girl, the need for a rich sex life doesn’t even register with her.

Everything she lists?

It’s all about herself.

The things SHE thinks SHE needs.

Like companionship.

Living together and getting along.

I’m not knocking any of that of course, because if you insist on monogamy and marriage? You better figure out how to get things so you aren’t at lock horns all the time.

But as I’ve said a thousand times?

None of that has anything to do with romantic love.

If you read the article, it’s obvious.

If this is what you think you need as a couple?

Your romantic love was lost long ago!

Listen girls and hear me clearly, you have got to get this through that little head of yours. If your relationship ceases to be richly sexual, you are going to lose your guy.

Guys connect sexually.

No.

It’s not enough to just to be your companiion.

A guy can get that from his buddies.

What he desires is to SEXUALLY connect with you.

Oh I know you tell all your friends that you have such a happy marriage. After all, your guy never complains, so that must mean he is happy too right?

Wrong!

He’s actually dead.

He hasn’t had a connection with you for forever.

If he doesn’t have a happy sex life?

I promise you.

Having a “happy” marriage is worthless to him!

What do you think? Is it time to quit fooling yourself that you have a happy marriage, and finally find your way back to real romantic love with him?