That guys don’t know how to love?

That one just seems obvious.

They are so busy trying to get in your pants?

How could they hope to win your heart?

But the thing that never ceases to amaze me, is you girls don’t know how to love either. For all your focus on “love and romance,” you don’t even know what true love is.

How can I say this?

Because I experience it with you constantly.

The number of you who tell me you love me?

It is almost every one.

Yet despite this claim, there are very few of you for whom this translates into anything romantic. I’m just that great guy you can rely upon, but to whom you’d never truly give your heart.

I see this when I approach you too.

How you instantly categorize me.

Decide in a flash about my “romantic potential.”

How that wouldn’t be POSSIBLE with me at all.

Of course if I was the classic incel guy, I would let this whole thing make me bitter. But because I understand how your addictions run, I approach you much more patiently.

The number of you I’ve met who can TRULY love?

I can count you on a couple fingers.

How could I possibly be resentful of you?

When you are as clueless as you are?

The way that true love really works, is not by being “swept off your feet” by a player. It comes from taking your time to get to know a guy, instead of just writing him off.

For me whether a girl is attractive or not?

That just isn’t majorly important.

Sure I won’t proceed if there is NOTHING there.

But it doesn’t have to be anything intense at all.

What I am interested in is taking my time to really get to know you. The more I get to know you, the more who you actually are makes me fall in love.

But then it isn’t “falling” is it?

It’s more like gradually recognizing the OBVIOUS.

When there is so much value to who you are?

How could I help but give you my heart?

What do you say girls? Are you as enlightened as you think you are regarding the whole world of love and relationships, or are you completely missing out on what it means to really love?