The world out there largely consists of two kinds of people. Those who FEEL. Those who THINK. They both feel/think the other one is missing out. If you're a feeler…

"I just don't feel any CHEMISTRY." "I don't think we're ROMANTIC POTENTIAL." "I thought about it and DECIDED." "I don't want to go THERE with you." One way or another most…

In Part 1 what did I TELL you? You can have the best of BOTH worlds. By enjoying Romantic FRIENDSHIPS? You can be single and enjoy ROMANCE too. It turns out that…

"He and I really CARE about each other." "But we're 'just friends' and TOTALLY platonic." "She and I like to hookup for SEX." "But that's ALL it is." You are probably well…

In Part 1 I made a STARTLING suggestion. It's not your PARTNER'S job to meet your needs. The only reason to BE with your partner? You value them for who THEY are.…

If you are like MANY people? You need your SPACE. Being in a relationship can often seem SUFFOCATING. Even SO? You still desire LOVE. You were MADE for it actually. So what…

In Greek mythology Scylla and Charybdis were terrible MONSTERS. Once a BEAUTIFUL female? Jealousy transformed Scylla into a 6 headed BEAST. Charybdis was once a ROCK. But now she was…

I've told you how I came to SEE romantic love the way I do. What I HAVEN'T shown you yet? How I came to design my LOVESTYLE. Since this is central to an easy and simple love life?…

It's a common REFRAIN. WHY are you with your partner? So they can meet your NEEDS of course! Why ELSE would you be with them? You need LOVE. Security. Companionship.…

I have said that romantic love is VALUING your partner. Desiring to SHARE sexual fulfillment and emotional connection together because you do. I have denied romantic love REQUIRES "commitment." Or that "commitment" can add ANYTHING to love.…