In Part 1 I pointed it out. You always confuse love with attraction. It's an easy mistake to make. Attraction comes so naturally.. But attraction is not love because attraction…
So says Psychology Today writer Mark D White. I was discussing this recently at a Meetup. Per my usual we were talking about romantic love. I was distinguishing between it…
If you're paying attention you might have noticed. I don't care what you girls think of me. In fact some of my male friends have said it to me. "Holy…
So another way you can look at this? It's to see those worst reasons to be in a relationship as "stages." Though you start in a stage of unconsciousness? Your…
I was thinking today about all the love in my life. All the girls for whom I have affection. I couldn’t tell you how many of them there are anymore.…
You know sometimes girls? How it seems to us guys? We can't please you no matter what we do. Try as we may? You seem to catch us whether you're…
I had a fun chat today. It was with a female relationship coach friend. She was asking some things about my thoughts. Trying to understand my crazy views. I was…
I'll admit there are times I wonder. "Have I just created a lovestyle for avoidants?" After all what does my tagline read? "Enjoy love without losing your independence" right? I'm…
I know it's counter intuitive. You think you'll win her heart if you commit to her. After all? If she would just commit to you? She'd have your heart forever…
If you are a 20 or 30 something? Female OR male? You really should consider a much older partner. Why? Though people your age seem more exciting to you? They…