A few years ago for New Years? I told you I wouldn't change anything! As I sit here 3 more years out? Entering the new DECADE? Have I changed my…

Oh I got your attention with that one did I? Well it got my attention too. Because these are the words of a friend of mine. He reads this blog…

It always AMUSES me. When I see people's REACTIONS. How you take what I TELL you here? It's really not up to ME. I have one friend who is very…

I read an article about COMMON relationship issues. I thought I'd see how Romantic Friendships SIZE up. After all I'm always recommending you CONFIGURE your love life this way. Do Romantic Friendships really…

When she said this if I didn't visibly FLINCH? I really SHOULD have. She was reiterating you girls' CONSTANT claim. That your emotions should LEAD your life. She told me…

Cool Girl and I were out for DINNER last Friday night. Hitting one of our FAVORITE spots. No. No. Not some HIGH END place with roast duck and wine. We…

I've gotten into a bit of a TRADITION here. (Part 1, Part 2) On International Woman's Day? I like to CELEBRATE the International girls in my life. No. These aren't all…

You're sitting with the girl you LOVE. Contemplating MARRIAGE. You're talking about what the two of you DESIRE. How GOOD your life together will be. Suddenly she asks you a…

As I look at a LOT of you girls' lives? I really don’t ENVY you. As you go about your days? So many of you show yourselves to be such…

As you know I do relationship consulting. I call what I do consulting because it's much different than what coaches do. Usually a coach will just ask you questions. Then…