The Difference Between Love and Attraction
"Why do I find myself agreeing with her?" I thought. "Yet uneasy with what she is saying?" I was musing over a conversation I had with a sweetheart the prior…
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December 23, 2020
There Are Only 3 Types Of Lovers – Which One Are You?
As you may have noticed by now? I'm a patterns guy. I analyse everything I do in terms of them. I find life easier to live when I feel like…
October 24, 2020
Enjoy Love Without Losing Your Independence
If you are like many people? You need your space. Being in a relationship can often seem suffocating. Even so? You still desire love. You were made for it actually. So what…
November 13, 2019
What Are Romantic Friendships?
I've been trying to figure something out. How do I best explain what I'm recommending? When I say I do relationship consulting I'm often asked, "And what do you think…
September 14, 2019
What Is Emotional Connection?
My last post defined sexual fulfillment. It is the first element of romantic love. Emotional connection is the second element. I want to define that now. Emotional connection is VALUING someone. Because…
September 7, 2019
What Is Sexual Fulfillment?
Despite my definition of romantic love? I have not defined its two elements clearly. Sexual fulfillment AND emotional connection. If your love lacks either of these you're in trouble. In this…
September 4, 2019
The Battle Between Biology And Love
You've probably heard of the battle of the sexes? I wrote about it here and here. And when you think of love and relationships, you think that is where the battle lies. Guys…
May 5, 2018
Why Romantic Friendships Make The Most Sense
"So are you in a couple now?" I replied, "I don't know if you follow my blog at all?" "I ask because as I share there, I don't do traditional…
January 31, 2018
“Romantic Love” Is Nature’s Sell Job
In a prior post I asked you why you believe in monogamy. I shared some statistical realities indicating what a poor track record traditional monogamy has. I suggested it may be…
April 29, 2017
Is It Love Or Is It Addiction?
I've been thinking a lot lately about the relationship between baseline attraction and long term attachment. These days most relationships begin with attraction, which has little to do with actually knowing the…
June 22, 2016