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At Least You’re Not As Old As My Dad! (Part 2)

This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series At Least You're Not As Old As My Dad!

When I share what I did in Part 1?

I often experience the same reaction.

“The only younger girls who are into older guys?”

“They are girls with DADDY ISSUES!”

Of course as you might suspect, these accusations frequently come from older girls who don’t like the competition. And yes from more traditional types as well, who think MARRIAGE is the only point.

Again my experience is different though.

To me it is often a function of MATURITY.

Girls who find older, more mature guys attractive?

They are much more mature themselves usually.

I had a discussion about this with a younger girl I was getting to know recently. She and I were spending lots and lots of time sharing with each other, and caring about each other too.

Because I’m polyamorous though?

I wasn’t seeking to be her “one and only.”

She was still seeing lots of other guys.

I was giving her my input on that too.

But after a little while I started to notice the ages of the guys she was dating. While some of them were her own age, she was consistently attracting much order guys also.

When I noticed this what I said to her?

“That’s a really good sign in my opinion.”

“The fact you’re attracting older guys like this?”

“It shows they find you more mature too.”

Don’t get me wrong here, I’m not saying she showed zero youthful levels of maturity. Each of us is always on a journey from here to there.

But the more I’ve gotten to know this girl?

The more I’ve come to love her.

I wish she didn’t live so far away.

She’s told me she wishes that too.

Even the fact that she and I can share about our OTHER love interests so freely? That is just another sign of how mature she truly is.

No idea where this relationship will go.

Only time will tell on that one.

My point is while “daddy issues” CAN occur.

A younger girl’s maturity often will do it.

What do you think girls? Is it really the case that for a younger girl to be interested in an older guy she has to have “daddy issues,” or could she just be an early starter in realizing the value of older guys like you do?

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