I Don’t Want To Date You
I don't want to date you. I'd just like to spend time with you I'd like to get to know you. See what makes you tick. I think starting out…
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September 19, 2026
Should Your Next Relationship Be With Someone Much Older (Or Younger) (Part 9)
"I'm 20," she said right out of the blue. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. I found her so mature and attractive? I could totally see us enjoying a…
September 16, 2026
Romantic Love Does Not Require Polarity (Part 5)
Time to take another stab at this. Seems to be endless variations on this theme lately. Our source for this one is the Tell Me Often Facebook page. A recent…
September 12, 2026
Are Romantic Friendships Just A Trauma Response? (Part 2)
So I ran across another trauma piece. This one identifying independence as "not trusting." "I don't need anyone" and "I'll just do it myself?" Those both stem from "survival tactic…
September 9, 2026
Yes Girls Everything Is About Sex (Part 2)
So you might disagree with something I said in Part 1. I said not wanting sex means you’re not really in love with your partner. You disagree because you feel…
September 5, 2026
Being Introverted Is Your Superpower (Part 3)
A newsletter I read regularly? It's from a guy named Andrew Sterling. Who is Andrew Sterling you ask? He's the head of the Project Rockstar thing. In Project Rockstar they…
September 2, 2026
Romantic Love Does Not Require Polarity (Part 4)
"He's so sensitive." She didn't know I heard her. Though she said this under her breath? I knew it was me she was referencing. When I heard her say it…
August 29, 2026
You Just Haven’t Met The Right People Yet
We were sitting chatting about a breakup. My breakup actually. It had literally only been a couple days. She was just there being a friend to me. This was very…
August 26, 2026
What Is Romantic Love? (Part 2)
What amazes me about my view of love? It’s how I’ve never found the need to change it. Though I’ve been writing for over a decade now? My philosophy of…
August 22, 2026
Don’t Build Your Life Around A Relationship
Everything about monogamy is wrong. People tell you, "Don't lose yourself completely." But then they turn around and what do they say? "You can only have this ONE love." Instead…
August 19, 2026